Showing posts with label hurt. Show all posts
Showing posts with label hurt. Show all posts

Thursday, 14 August 2014

Breakups #02

Breakups #02
Okay, Tomorrow is a brand new day - Those i know going through a heartbreak or a difficult time... Don't be mad at yourself for feeling upset…. You have made it through another day!! & Guess what - Tomorrow is a new day!

Today i want you to go through your house… & Clear away the reminders you don't need to see Like old photos, things laying around the house, cards, gifts, shirts, whatever it is that reminds you of the other person… This is because our brains when we see these things send triggers that remind us of that said thing and the memories linked to it.

I’m not saying you need to erase them from your life - I’m simply saying ##out of sight - out of mind’’ This will help you move along instead of wallowing over what ‘’could've been’’.

I want you to get your self motivated… Set your self some new goals, revamp your vision board!! Indulge in all that makes you smile... Exercise and eat healthy, really connect with who you are as a person!

Clear out your home so you can clear out your mind & day by day things will get easier - it's okay to miss someone it's just your hearts way of saying you still love them... all apart of the process! at least that's what they say Tomorrow will be better than today!

Be STRONG and know you deserve everything they was not able to give you!


Monday, 11 August 2014

Heartbreak

Heartbreak
Heart breaks are a some of the most painful things you will ever experience... The thing is if the other person valued the other and saw that all the good outweighs the problems in the relationship -it wouldn't end it would grow. So if someone has broke your heart, know that it's because this person is not the one for you, don't hold on to pain for too long, work through it, step by step and learn who you are without the other... What will be will always be, and this is not the one for you the right one will come when you're healed, happy and enjoying your life once more. You borrow each others hearts, but sometime we get careless and one of us ends up hurt. If that other doesn't wanna put in the work, then there is no growth, don't be sad because they gave up on you! There will be someone who will want all of you, you don't wanna really be with someone who doesn't want you.. you want to be with someone who wants to love you, cherish you and grow with you....
So right now if your heart is breaking just breathe... The pain will subside in time and you will be stronger and wiser from it. <3