Showing posts with label alone. Show all posts
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Saturday 22 October 2016

Living through Death



Death is immensity, the finality of something that ceased to exist… But all because you cannot physically see them, touch them, speak to or hear them it does not mean they are gone.

When a child loses a parent they hold within them a piece of that person, their blood is your blood, you have (hopefully) years of stories and memories and by remembering who they are, by knowing them and that feeling that is felt at the leaving of their body, you know just how lucky you are to have known someone who has impacted your life the way that they have, to feel what you feel is love and that is more than anyone can ever ask for.

It’s my belief that nothing dies it simply changes forms. . . And by remembering they live on through you. Spirit is with us we are energy and yes you may not be able to physically speak to them, see them in the physical form but they are with you, surrounding you, guiding you, so pay attention, remember them and be wowed at how life has a way of showing you they are walking right along beside you.

Death is immensity, it’s all consuming but when things have run their course the only step is change, try not to be selfish in wanting to hold onto someone/something when it’s their time, they have the right to transition to what's next for them - I know that it feels unfair, it feels a lot like abandonment, and believe me I know a lot about abandonment, but you never lose them, they have and are a part of who you are, be allowing for them and live on in memory of them.

You should always live for you and not for everyone else. Yes it’s true some people are taken far too young, to early, too soon, but there is never a right or perfect time for change, it simply is and it happens - but I am a fond believer that the universe never gives us anything that we cannot handle, even when we feel like we cannot, we do, it's a test of strength of courage and it leaves its mark with us/on us in helping us become who we want to be.

Death is not the end it is just a new beginning.

Be a lighthouse! Shine even in the darkest of nights and you will find your way.

Sunday 21 September 2014

Dreaming of an Ex

Dreaming of an Ex

Now People sometimes find comfort when dreaming of a ex boyfriend or girlfirend. But before i get into that, there has been many traditions amongst spiritual people that are an exception to rule of this kind of dream. If you dreamt of a partner before you ever met them, then for sure you are bound, entwined together for the rest of your life… This is known as the famous ‘’twin flame or soul mate connection’’. Usually these matches will find it difficult in the beginning but it really is something so unique that nothing else will match to it.  So if you dream constantly of someone it’s showing you and reminding you of that said someone, it’s the universes way of drawing you back together and this serves more of a premonition than a psychological analysis that is what dream interpretations are.

So for the rest of you folks here is what it means to dream of an ex… This is just a brief meaning, there are lots of factors to be taken into it, if you would like to know more or have specifics then feel free to comment below.

“To dream that your ex is missing you suggests that you "miss" some aspect of that past relationship. A situation in your current life may be reminding you of your relationship with your ex. Alternatively, the dream may mean that you have moved on with your life. The notion that your ex is missing you may be a pun on that he has "missed" his opportunity or "missed" his chance with you. If you dream that you walk off or walk away with your ex, then it indicates that your current love interests are not measuring up to your ex. To see your mate's ex in your dream suggests that you are comparing yourself to the ex. The dream is telling you not to make the same relationship mistakes that ended that relationship…” Dreammoods <3


Monday 11 August 2014

Heartbreak

Heartbreak
Heart breaks are a some of the most painful things you will ever experience... The thing is if the other person valued the other and saw that all the good outweighs the problems in the relationship -it wouldn't end it would grow. So if someone has broke your heart, know that it's because this person is not the one for you, don't hold on to pain for too long, work through it, step by step and learn who you are without the other... What will be will always be, and this is not the one for you the right one will come when you're healed, happy and enjoying your life once more. You borrow each others hearts, but sometime we get careless and one of us ends up hurt. If that other doesn't wanna put in the work, then there is no growth, don't be sad because they gave up on you! There will be someone who will want all of you, you don't wanna really be with someone who doesn't want you.. you want to be with someone who wants to love you, cherish you and grow with you....
So right now if your heart is breaking just breathe... The pain will subside in time and you will be stronger and wiser from it. <3