Overcoming the Green eyed Monster known as - Jealousy
So, Sorry for getting all deep on you... I wanted to theme the week on self love & knowing our Self Worth. Jealousy is something that we face at some point in our life, some of us decide to distinguished our self as a jealous person...Forget all the facade over it's only coz i love you that i get jealous, it's a good thing it shows how much i care... It shows nothing more than our own insecurities.
Now i know that may sound a little harsh, and those that know me personally know i'm the kindest person, but when it comes to the truth i can be a little out spoken or blunt, i don't mean to offend in fact i aim to shine a light upon something a lot of us get stuck in.
It's crucial to remember that your partner is not with you simply because your attractive, that is just one factor, & that's what i'd like you to remember before you take something small & making it something huge.
We are in ''relationships'' because that person has so much more to them that meets our desirable partner. So when your partner is engaging in small talk with a some what attractive female, do not assume his going to run off with her... She may be beautiful but she is not you. You are important person in your partners life, and she is not you, so do not fret, jump to conclusions or judge.
You see we meet different categories in peoples life, funny, intelligent, kind, caring, good in bed, generous, out going, fun to be with, values, ambition, goals... So we are always going to find people who are better at us at some things, but you are the magic ingredient at making your partner yours and he yours.
I hope i am making sense... You see when we are jealous we are sending vibes and energy out that states we are not enough, that person is prettier than me, slimmer than me or funnier than me...
Your partner is with you because he choose to be, because you have all the qualities that he desires, because you are the one that he cannot replace. His not with you just for how you look it’s for everything else you bring to the relationship. But when you act jealous all the time it takes away a little of your sparkle…
Now it depends on the man, some men are naturally flirtatious, some men are not loyal but that's for you to figure out and then it’s for you to decide if this is someone you want to invest in. Trust is key if you have that why are you Jealous??
Jealousy is an internal feeling that implies fear and the lack of something within our self… Your amazing and you are special, your unique to your partner… never let anyone change that. Love who you are, enjoy what you got and be the best you!!
You see there are various categories in a person we find desirable it is not all physical. So yes there will be people that are better then you in certain categories… but you should remember you're so much more to him than just looks, you are many things so you see there is no reason be jealous at all, you are what he wants - not the girl who he is casually talking to for that five minutes.
Jealousy is real - battle it now! Stop comparing your self to everyone else... Believe me it's great to be different & no i'm not everyone's cup of tea... But when you wake up and realize your a lot happier.
