Is He Really “The One?” - Haunted by a past Love and reminders - Retrograde Season 2016

Now I know for a lot of us this Spring and Summer of 2016 will be a challenging one, a time where we all will transform in ways we never thought we would. I have a lot of beautiful women come to me asking, “How can I get him back”, “Am I crazy for thinking about my ex”, “How does he really feel”...

Is He Really “The One?”

With all the retrograde energy it does make us somewhat reflective over those past relationships and experiences and something I have learnt is to not chase what no longer is. A few years ago I had to let go of someone I was In love with someone that I thought I'd never be able to love more than that person but that intensity, image for the future/growth was not reciprocated...

A lot of this sudden self reflection is down to the cosmos, it’s not the cosmos fault but it is opening the doors to opportunity for you to heal and let go of things, situations and people that are not what we thought they were or was “suppose” to be.

Now I’m not saying that you won’t reconnect and hit it off again - My aim is not to discourage because maybe for you that was how it was suppose to be, that's how your story was suppose to unfold. But for many we get caught up in the idea of something or someone - I’m simply saying all because your remembering things doesn't mean that has to be nothing more than a tool for reflection and seeing just how far you have come since.

I may only be 27 years old, I know I still have much to learn on my journey in life, but I too was like you looking back and believing that I could never love anyone as much as I loved my ex…  Now although I do not have a significant other just yet, My views have changed massively & If I’m honest I have never loved who I am more than I do now! - It’s been an empowering few years!

A few years back I had to endure the worst pain I have felt to date but I look back and smile now because that was the greatest thing to of happened to me… The result of that ending has impacted me in so many ways, I’m more focused than I have ever been, stronger than I was before, and although I thought I lost everything, that couldn’t be further from the truth. You have to believe that there is something more, I’m a believer everything happens for a reason, That one wasn’t the one doesn’t mean that your one isn’t about to walk into your life - Look at the bigger scheme of things!

Change, death and truth is never easy, it’s uncomfortable and you have to ride it out, the more you resist, the more you hang on the harder it becomes. If your partner is not on the same page as you and has expressed they never will be, it’s time to allow someone the opportunity to be all that and that involves letting this go. Time is all we have stop wasting it on someone who doesn’t want the same things as you - Hoping that it will change, your only standing in the way of your own happiness - as I did back then.

My point is sometimes your greatest downfalls turn into your greatest gains. We all thought it couldn’t get better than this and yet it does. My ex had different views for his future and I wasn’t apart of it, so if someone has chosen something other than you then he/she is not the one for you - Letting that one go does nothing more that open the door for the one to come in - This Summer will be clearing out the old - It’s a process. Get Spring cleaning and get honest with yourself about what you chose to take with you and that in which you leave behind.

You are in charge of your own happiness and you cannot make people change or feel things that they don’t - You can only be the greatest you & That should be more than enough for your lover, husband, partner. A Partnership is about coming together it should be fair and balanced and it’s a journey sometimes you just need to look at where your going… You could find yourself having to go back before you can continue moving forward.

Mid Month - Full Moon - Pick a Card REVEAL 2016 with Askalittlewitch

Full Moon/Mid Month 22nd April in

Scorpio 2 Degrees  

With Spiritual Horoscope Predictions

Full Moon!

So a Full Moon is when the Moon is directly opposite the Sun and this is a time where something symbolically becomes Illuminated. Now this Particular Full Moon is in Scorpio is the Early degrees at the time of the Full Moon - “2 degrees”. The Number Two in my books often represents a choice but it also has this vibration of “feeling” about it, decisions and choices create a ripple effect and in life or life itself is made up of a series of choices, so it’s my belief to decide or choose what feels right in the direction of Love... and well, it will always lead you on a path of happiness.

Now What’s interesting about this particular Full Moon as I have expressed is the fact that Scorpio is Ruled by Pluto and Mars, both of which are Retrograding… Scorpio as a sign is deep, it’s raw, it’s honest, it’s life and death the bridge between, it’s very psychic and it’s very intense and emotionally driven.

To find out more about retrograde season check on my blog post here http://askalittlewitch.blogspot.co.uk/2016/04/2016-retrograde-season-wheel-of-fortune.html

Full Moon’s are known to be that time of the month where unexplainablly there are more accidents than usual or more in patients in A&E in hospitals… Scorpio is that Scary place, the darkness that lies within us the part we do not get to control, it’s the unexpected and It’s in my belief that we are all suppressing something or avoiding something that needs looking at.

Full Moon is a time of illumination and I think we will all get a glimpse in what this retrograde season will be all about on the 22nd April give it a day before and a few days after. Now I won’t go into more detail as to what that is if you would like insight into that you can check out the link here to another blog post I created.

http://askalittlewitch.blogspot.co.uk/2016/04/2016-retrograde-season-wheel-of-fortune.html

Now I spoke about the month in general on my Monthly YouTube Horoscope going into the Star Signs but I thought it would be especially handy for you all to have a Mid-Monthly (Just so happens to fall on the Full Moon) pick me up. I have selected 12 Cards of which are representative of the 12 Zodiac signs but It also gives you the opportunity to hone in on your intuition and selecting a card for you self as well…

Lets Begin. . .

Now I'd first like you to close your eyes, take three deep breathes, "Asking what do I need to pay attention to during this Full Moon or (fill in the blank)" and pay attention to the card that draws your attention first. - Make a note of the Number & Comment below!

Then for a little more added information you can check out the cards associated with your Zodiac Sign. 1.Aries, 2.Taurus, 3.Gemini, 4.Cancer, 5.Leo, 6.Virgo, 7.Libra, 8.Scorpio, 9.Sagittarius, 10.Capricorn 11.Aquarius, 12.Pisces

and then for even more insight you can go as far as to look at your Moon Sign (This will especially beneficial being we are dealing with the Full Moon here) & Also your Ascendant sign

If you do not know where your placements are you can enter your Birthdate details into an online Birth Chart Calculator to find out - You will need your Date of Birth, Time of Birth and Place of Birth. I'll leave a link to mine below.

http://askalittlewitch.com/your-western-birth-chart/

Okay So now you have Chosen why not scroll down and See what you Card you Got… Also why not check out your Sun Sign, Moon Sign and Ascendant Sign to see if you can create a little Story for yourself and What this Month’s Full Moon Will Bring you!

1.Aries 2.Taurus 3.Gemini 4.Cancer 5.Leo 6.Virgo 7.Libra 8.Scorpio 9.Sagittarius 10.Capricorn 11.Aquarius 12.Pisces

As always if your interested in a reading with me please check out My Services available at my Website below

www.askalittlewitch.com

The Cards

Option 1. Aries or Heal card No.17

This Card is in a Reversed position and if you are an Aries this could be your ruling planet Mars in it’s retrograding position… So what does this card Mean for you - It’s in my belief that you will be faced with something or someone from your past, this something really does need your attention, acknowledgement, You probably are the first one to dismiss and power on forward… But not this time, the more you try to suppress or hide something the more it naggles you from within. I think here you are needing to face a fear and usually Aries are not ones to fear anything, they concur but this has emotional tie to it and we all know you are not ones to get too emotionally involved - partly as a protective mechanism… But This time you really will have to face something, and it might scare the crap out of you! Be honest with how you feel and now is not the time to give into temptations as such as anything shady will surface and do so with a vengeance.

Option2. Taurus or Challenging Times

I think for you my friends it’s about not fearing change! Something has got you worked up, anxious, conflicted and you so desperately want to avoid something or wait it out but now is the time to act! Do not fear or fret this is just one of those hurdles you must overcome and it involves you being brave enough to make that first move… I’m seeing movement for you and changes in general things are about to get moving!

Option 3. Gemini or Win or Lose

What is it that your fighting for Geminis? It appears your facing a bit of a challenge yourself and for you my friends it’s about asking yourself how much do you really want it? There is a battle ahead of you a fight for the thing/person you desire but do you really want it? It’s about weighing things out and not jumping in on impulse it seems like your having to put yourself out there in a way that may feel vulnerable. If it is something you seek how hard are you willing to work for it… It requires effort but it will give pleasant rewards to those who are honest and true to themselves.

Option 4. Cancer or Rest & Reconsider

You are having to take some time away, a need to gather your thoughts, Full Moons always affect you more than most and you can act in a overly emotional way more than most and 9/10 it is because of a past situation. It’s time to take yourself out of the situation and look at it from another angle, really, really think, before you make a choice or a commitment to someone or something! This could as well bring up difficult relationship choices or  some re-occurring issue from the past, perhaps an old lover gets in touch or you find something out that takes you a bit by surprise - think before you act and gain a better perspective of the situation.

Option 5. Leo or Detach

This is a card all linked into Relationships and your being asked my Fiery Friends to detach from your relationship. Be this a positive one or a negative one there needs to be some separation… I shall tell you why, All relationships require fairness, and there is a need to examine your relationship, look at how you got here, and the decisions you made along the way, look at your role in the relationship and look at if there are any small or big issues that need examination. There are always two sides and you always have a role to play within it. I feel it’s important to really look at the feelings involved here! You too have a decision to make and it has to come from a place of feeling/heart and not EGO!!!! Look at the relationship and take responsibility for the part you are playing or have played release guilt, release judgement and ask yourself what’s the fair thing to do.

Option 6. Virgo or Joy & Stability

You are in for a pleasant surprise Virgos… Whatever surfaces for you during the Full Moon will bring with it an element of the unexpected - something literally coming out of nowhere. Now what you do with it is up to you! But you really need to ask yourself what it is that feels right, what does your heart want? You may not like what that is but in order to make the right choice you must take action on your feelings and emotions and allow them to be heard - it’s not a time to suppress or allow your mind to rationalise something. Alas, it’s a time of celebrations for you!

Option 7. Libra or Open Up

Now you are usually so open but for some reason you are shying away from something, you are hiding behind someone else or something else and not really shining out who it is that you are… If you want to have what it that you desire you need to get over that initial fear and speak up! Or in some cases maybe you are needing to change direction altogether, you could be so focused in someone or one area that you forget to allow something or someone that is not in your comfort zone. Get out there Libra! Stop thinking you are not enough, not wanted, desired or loved - you are but your looking in all the wrong places!

Option 8. Scorpio or Strengthening Bond

It’s still early days but there is a deepening connection forming, It might not be ready to fully manifest right now but it is there you know it and you sense the promise of things about to improve. This could also relate to work connections as well. I’m seeing many new doorways opening up for you and if you are Single new loves coming out of the wood works -  I’m seeing truths surfacing and along with it opportunities. Connections!

Option 9. Sagittarius or Manifest

For you Guys it’s about time you start putting things into action! Whatever came about at the time of the New Moon at the start of this Month it’s time now to get real honest with yourself about the work your putting in… You have all these ideas for amazing creations and yet, are you putting in the work are you letting yourself off the hook creating excuses for the whys or results so far? There is nothing stopping you but you… You can have whatever you desire but you must get you but in gear! Soon enough Jupiter your ruling planet will get moving and when it does you should action some of these things! You can turn your dreams into a reality you just have to want it enough and love it enough! Procrastination time over!

Option 10. Capricorn or Helpless & Hopeless

Now It’s not as bad as it looks but with your planet going retrograde in optimistic Sagittarius you could feel like your being restricted. You could be looking at the situation you are facing and wondering if all is lost. Your belief structures are changing and yes it’s true you are ending or transforming in ways that you never thought you would. In all, you are faced with a difficult choice - Do not let people define what it is that you can have and cannot have, you need to assess the situation and then you need to take action - You must learn from the past!! The old way of doing things didn’t work so change it! By doing that you are empowering yourself you are in control and no longer in a state of “hopelessness”, You are one of the strongest signs you just need to release yourself from the past once and for all and stop comparing everything to then - there is no then, there is only now! Break the cycle! This “thing” that has surfaced for you is nothing more than an opportunity to get real honest and free yourself from the chains that bind you.

Option 11. Aquarius or The Base Chakra

Whenever a Chakra card comes up it’s a signal to say that energy is blocked and you are off balance. The fact that I have pulled the Base Chakra for you is that your worrying about something, it could be something physical but it does relate to a fear… Let me say it is so important for you face what it is that has caused this blockage - If you dedicate enough time and you work at it you will free yourself from this kind of anxiety. The Base tends to relate to matters of reality, your image, your job, your stability, sex, health all of this can be rectified by your emotions and so something is causing a rise within you - Have you or are you making the right choices. It’s simple have a heart to heart with yourself… What are you feeling, missing or fearing currently and why? Get Physical - Take action and movement and you should be able to get that energy to flow.

Option 12. Pisces or Blossoming

For you this reaches out to matters of the heart… Someone important could very well be entering your life and believe it or not they will transform you greatly in a way that will open up your untapped potential and create something truly beautiful. Something's about to be awakened or to reawaken - What I will say here is that you need to trust in your intuition and really listen to what you are being told or shown from within. This is a time where you might feel uneasy at this new opening, Most Pisces tend to go with the flow of things, sensing things out and there really is a great new opportunity coming up of you but you need to be open and allowing of this energy… You of course have a choice between the new and the old - Someone returning and someone new - I advise to go slow and nurture the potential until your sure which one has that deeper connection.

Thank you for taking the time to check out My Full Moon Cards! My Horoscope for this Month is up on my YouTube channel so feel free to check that out! I Also have Mercury in Capricorn and Aquarius prepared for filming.

2016 Retrograde Season - The Wheel of Fortune - The greatest things are about to happen - You just gotta make it through!

2016 Retrograde Season

Broken down into sections for you to easily follow along - 1st up I speak of Jupiter & Saturn Retrograde followed by Mars and then Pluto and finishing up with Mercury Retrograde in Taurus

It all starts Now the greatest Purge that will have you feeling like you have well and truly joined the circus! It is the year of the Monkey after all.

Tomorrow will marker Pluto joining Jupiter, Saturn and Mars  in there Retrograding cycles of which will be joined on the 28th by Mercury which is already in its shadow period.

Now Jupiter you already have had a taste of what that is all about being in Virgo... It really is offering you the keys to open doors to amazing new realities but you have to put in the effort to get the Keys, to open up those doors.

With it looking at and I guess you could go as far as to say working alongside Saturn - Both Saturn and Jupiter are about teaching and yeah Saturn can be a hard ass, he likes to push you further and further to see just how far he can before you break, but it’s not about breaking you it’s about making you stronger getting you focused, on track and seeing if you really want it - he has some pretty crazy ways of teaching those lessons. Nevertheless Saturn’s lessons are some of the most rewarding!

Then you have Jupiter, he doesn’t like to be in Virgo, Virgo can be too detail oriented that they become so critical and obsessed with perfection that they forget to look up and notice what you have. Jupiter rules over Sagittarius of which currently has both Mars/Saturn retrograding, which is amplifying the kind of journey you are embarking upon during the Spring/Summer months - It is about expanding your higher mind, adapting beliefs and giving you very real experiences. Maybe even some Spiritual ones! Signs and Signals sent by Planet Neptune.

Jupiter brings about luck, expansion, expanding your horizons in Virgo it can be that doorway for your vocation, what it is you desire to be, to do, and you literally can make it all happen with the Virgo energy but are your Beliefs/fears/doubts the things that are holding you back… The “I can’t do this” syndrome.

Mars Retrograde!

April 18th until May 28 moves direct but won’t leave Scorpio again until August 2nd

So you are well versed in the Jupiter and Saturn Retrogrades but Mars only goes retrograde every couple of years so this energy might feel a little foggy or unusual to most as we don’t experience it quite as often.

Okay so, my mind is scrambling because I want to talk about the importance of it retrograding at the same time as Pluto and that Scorpio link… But first I should kind of let you know at least from my perspective what Mars Transiting Retrograde does and brings with it symbolically.

Mars rules over both Aries and Scorpio! Your persona (1st house - aka the house of self) & The unexpected/unknown/unforeseen (8th house - aka the house of death and rebirth). Mars itself is POWER, not like Capricorn, it’s more like the soldiers or the warriors that work for you it’s the drive and the energy to make it all happen minus the leadership - it’s kind of got a mind of its own - It’s passion and follows it relentlessly. Mars is your life force your energy and it is one of the two relationship planets.

So a Retrograde planet gives off the appearance or the optical illusion of going backwards… So I guess that’s kind of symbolic that we too will go inward and become more reflective maybe needing to look backwards before we are able to move forwards. A piece of the puzzle is missing and the parts are not ahead but behind. It’s as though we have reached a point in our lives where the “gods” the forces beyond this physical reality have put cogs in the wheels that are directing us forward, we can no longer continue on this path because we have things that are holding us back or things that we have forgotten or need to understand - unfinished business.

Okay So Mars last went Retrograde March 1 2014 in the Sign of Libra (affecting relationships) and before that January 24 2012 in the Sign of Virgo all of which where when the Karmic cycle of Saturn in Scorpio was taking place or within a day of doing so.

With Mars going retrograde it can bring if your a female, a certain type of man (back)into your life if you are a man, maybe you are remembering an old lover, again these are just from my observations. Mars co-ruling over Scorpio has this kind of Karmic twist to it - it’s raw and unexplainable.

Mars turning inwards is that we have this desire to look behind, to revisit, there is likely to be a sexual/intimate connection cropping up in some very fated karmic ways. It can bring an old vendetta back, wanting to get even with someone as well… The common thread I’m seeing is the past, going back and not really considering the usual things - it’s like a gravitational pull towards something or someone! This is not a time to make commitments what with Mercury being retrograde at the end of the month.

… Pluto Retrograde

It’s time to reflect about what you actually desire, you will find truths coming to the Surface as we have Pluto lending a helping hand at looking at patterns in your life, understanding the past and opportunities to reconnect and heal - coming together with someone from the past could actually open up more doors for the future - again it’s a time to think and commitments should wait a while longer.

With this cycle of Mars going back through Sagittarius and into Scorpio we will be coming face to face with certain fears even more so something from the past (Pluto retrograding), It’s a time of great transformations and healings and new birthings and reconnections being made - to me it screams Karmic ties.

Pluto going retrograde in Capricorn is a big deal considering it’s degrees and ruling over Saturn which is also doing some reanalyzing upon belief systems and the future, the horizon, what matters and what we are building leads to who we are building things with… We are looking at the structures within our lives and the decisions we made along the way. Pluto ruling over Scorpio the sign of truth, honesty, death, transformation, secrets and control you could find some things out that could redefine a lot for you. This is just another intense aspect turning us to look at the past, the endings that occurred it will trigger the 2012-2014 and summer of 2015 series of events… there are pieces missing and things to heal still and no matter how hard you try to avoid it - 5 planets going retro that’s a lot of energy going down.

Now most people can withhold one maybe two planets going retrograde but with 5 - i’m sorry folks! You will have whatever has been suppressed will resurface for you.

Now I said at the start of the year this will be the year of great changes and those changes will be unpredictable partly because we are moving through the year of the Monkey! I also said that this year the universe in some mysterious ways will be aligning those people who desire partnership with a desirable partner, this partner maybe not what you are use to, but there will be this fatedness about you and the other…It will be about finding your clan or tribe. For those who are fed up with the hookup culture this will be a year that will open up the doorway for a powerful connection and for some, it can bring the past back too. By the time we reach the year of the Rooster (January 28 2017) we will see the light of this beautiful new beginning and it will bring joy!

Mercury Retrograde in Taurus

Currently in its shadow period, going retrograde on April 28 until May 27 but will feel the effects until June 7th.

This one is going to be a kicker being as it is in the Sign of Taurus which is all about value, love, stability, family, the things that bring us that sense of belonging. It’s interesting to me to see how all of this energy is about the heart center, opening up and taking notice of what our hearts wants as opposed to the things we tell ourselves we want.

This is a time where yes there very well could be technical difficulties, delays with travel, misunderstandings, communication mishaps but it is the perfect time to reflect, not take things so personal, there will be a lot of projecting during this time maybe even some hesitantness too. We need to look back at matters of heart - This could bring up an reoccurring situation, a need to re-think about someone from the past or maybe even reflect on a choice you may of made.

Because Taurus is so fixed and sensual I think it can bring up those intense feelings for someone, “The one that got away - or is slipping away”.  It’s as though we go into this deep thought of feelings, reminders, it’s someone who still holds some power over us and Taurus is stubborn so don’t expect things to really get moving until it starts to move forwards again - but still your head will be plagued with a choice, that tipping point of it could really all be over I need to reconnect to see if what I still feel is really there - It’s that sign who needs to experience for oneself to believe… But that desire is there and it’s linked into the past and it circulates the heart, passion and love - a deep one.

It’s as though we thought we made it out! We survived that issue, situation, circumstance due to a lover or something of value to us… Then all of a sudden it pops up out of the blue! It could feel like for some, your own mind is betraying you but all thoughts are cropping up for a reason! You must evaluate these things. Maybe the choices we made back then were us trying to control the issue and switch off from feeling (Pluto won’t allow that neither Mars) - Logic doesn't understand the heart and joy and happiness come from the heart - Taurus is about pleasure the finer things in life & although Mercury Retrogrades are not good to start something New they might be okay to reconsider something old.

Be sure to Share for the upcoming Retrograde Season the energy is about to turn up a notch or two. If you would like a personal Reading with me please check out my website www.askalittlewitch.com & be sure to check me out on Facebook & Youtube “Ask a Little Witch” Like & Subscribe for more

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