Astrology October 08 2014

Astrology October 08 2014

Today is the Lunar Eclipse & Full Moon in Aries!!! The first of this Eclipse season has finally begun!!!! <3

Aries as a theme represents War, Self, independence  and looking at our own identification - Because today is going to be about you, how you see your self and how others are seeing you today.

So now that this is a full moon (Eclipse) it really is emotionally lighting up all of the above. With the planet uranus here in Aries as well it is lighting up the new looks and new ways to look at the identification of who you are, what you represent and what you want in your life.

Now all this energy is opposing (which means it is directly opposite causing stress and tension and the need for balance) the Sun in libra with venus there also which is about relationships, looking at your values and what you mirror and what you connect with. Are you connecting with the right energies?

Now there is also a big T square (by this it means when two planets in opposition ↔ {Moon + Uranus ↔ Sun +Venus} both square a third planet in this case ‘’Pluto’’ making the Letter T in the universe - which is a challenging focal point for these planetary energies) to Pluto in Capricorn signifying is your destiny aligning with the right people and energies? Also are you aligning with your destiny? I cannot stress enough but you really need to focus on truth and having the courage to make the adjustments to follow through in to what will open great doors of opportunity and happiness.

This energy today is about going the next round making it simple which comes with having the right people on your team, you got to know what you want and you got to be connected with that destiny.

There is this grand trine (when three planets generally of the same element meet each other to form a triangle this is  harmonious) in fire - Jupiter in Leo about our heart, opening up our passion, really expanding the heart space and looking at things differently , Uranus in Aries looking at our self, the independence and uniqueness and Mars in Sagittarius ready to go and explore and take us on these big powerful journeys. We want the freedom to go with what we want and universe is really ready to blast open the doors, with new directions and new roads.

So Today is the day to gather everything together so we can be ready to move into all this…

We still have this Mercury Retrograde happening in scorpio which is here to give us the depth to understand all these deep things and really cut away from the things that no longer serve us. Scorpio is life and death - and it really is as final with these situations. The decisions will be made and that is it there is no going back later its final - the only way is forwards.

With this Mercury Retrograde, you will be exploring a lot, really going beneath things and really reveal the truth.

It will also pose questions like is it really in your destiny to be with this person? Do you really think that, that energy is right to connect with?

It’s really a time to fly and i know it is not easy. There is a need for us to REALLY know what it is we want, to REALLY know who we are and to make sure we are connecting with that. If you're not doing this that Pluto in Capricorn is gonna bust it all out into the open. Chances like these, this energy does not come around everyday and the decision is now guys & Dolls. It might be hard because whether following for good or not so good thats true to you, there might be a let go & a redirection shift here.

The power of all this is going with what you know you want & the universe will take you where you need to go and you need to trust in that.  

Neptune is in Pisces so it is about trusting and connecting spiritually as spirit will not lead you wrong. They are pulling you towards something and your thoughts and surrounds - PAY ATTENTION!! There are signs here… What is it you are thinking about? what things randomly pop into your head?

The intensity is that there is going to be changes in partnerships, our values and what we truly want. can make you feel like you're being stretched everywhere today. but trust that you're being put in the right place. Allow this excitement to take us on this journey. It’s like we are all being given tickets - but who is on board!?? Who is resisting and who is open? Being honest is so KEY!!

Destiny is really hitting us today and what it is all about! Everything is here ready to go. . .

My advice is to be very very honest!

Dating & Making them Relationships #01 Time

Dating & Making them Relationships #01 Time

Okay so what would you say makes a relationship? In this short blog i’m just going to be talking about time. Why time? Well for anything to develop, to grow to become something more there needs to be time. This is something that gets tricky but it really is simple and it’s helped me realise why i was not satisfied when it came to past relationships…

When you're dating someone it’s perfectly okay to see each other once or a couple times a week… But when you start liking someone, you become captivated by them and so you want to spend more time with each other. This is called investing. Investing is important when turning dating into something a little more serious or committed does not mean it cannot be just as fun, yet it’s the thing that scares us especially men and it causes us to withdraw.

You should only invest as much time into someone as they are willing to with you, this is a KEY factor to stop you from getting hurt. IT’s not a game of trickery! It’s simply only giving as much as you're willing to give the person thats is willing to only give you that much of their time. Still be fun and warm to show them just how amazing you are, but do not give more than they give you. Now of course when you're transitioning into the next phase of being in a relationship you will need to test this out, give a little more to see if they give a little more and vise versa.

When you're seeing a guy that you really like and you're seeing them twice a week, it feeds you… by this i mean it gives your just enough to not want to or feel the need to look else where. So you're not hungry ‘lol’ … Soon that becomes not enough, you need more we need to feel like as human beings that we are creating, developing, growing and moving forward. So and here comes it, if you need more you need to be more than just satisfied…  If the other person is not willing to give you more, be kind, understanding (wait for it)... just say well i’d really like to keep seeing you, but i’d also like to keep my options open and maybe start dating other people.

Thats exactly what you do… I had been in a relationship for a few years it went from someone giving me lots of their time to them giving me so little… i was unsatisfied, but because you love them and enjoy the time they do give to you, you stick it out and wait and hope things will get better. I went from dating to relationship to what felt like i was back to only dating someone yet investing a lot more than i should've because that person was only giving me so much of their time. So, it’s important to be consistent and set boundaries within your self of what you deem you need from the relationship, if there is no compromise then get out it, it’s not worth it… You should not invest your emotions, your thoughts, your heart into something/Someone who is not investing just as much back in return.

My relationship had many factors, but i feel that time was the number one key thing! And its something i set out saying in the beginning and that other person was not able to deliver or work on it, and so it’s time to get back out there. Relationships are tricky, difficult, but they are necessary for us to grow. I have learnt a lot from my past relationships and i will continue to grow with my future ones. They reflect and contrast who we are as people and what we must learn to get to that good match. So do not allow your past to ruin your future.

Practice on time. IT’s the number one thing that you can give to someone else and it makes all the difference. Some couples get into things super fast and give a lot of time, this is unhealthy also as you still need to do things separately, you still have your own goals, ambitions, dreams and lives away from your significant other… it’s important to remember that, do things together but always make time for yourself

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