Astrology October 08 2014

Astrology October 08 2014

Today is the Lunar Eclipse & Full Moon in Aries!!! The first of this Eclipse season has finally begun!!!! <3

Aries as a theme represents War, Self, independence  and looking at our own identification - Because today is going to be about you, how you see your self and how others are seeing you today.

So now that this is a full moon (Eclipse) it really is emotionally lighting up all of the above. With the planet uranus here in Aries as well it is lighting up the new looks and new ways to look at the identification of who you are, what you represent and what you want in your life.

Now all this energy is opposing (which means it is directly opposite causing stress and tension and the need for balance) the Sun in libra with venus there also which is about relationships, looking at your values and what you mirror and what you connect with. Are you connecting with the right energies?

Now there is also a big T square (by this it means when two planets in opposition ↔ {Moon + Uranus ↔ Sun +Venus} both square a third planet in this case ‘’Pluto’’ making the Letter T in the universe - which is a challenging focal point for these planetary energies) to Pluto in Capricorn signifying is your destiny aligning with the right people and energies? Also are you aligning with your destiny? I cannot stress enough but you really need to focus on truth and having the courage to make the adjustments to follow through in to what will open great doors of opportunity and happiness.

This energy today is about going the next round making it simple which comes with having the right people on your team, you got to know what you want and you got to be connected with that destiny.

There is this grand trine (when three planets generally of the same element meet each other to form a triangle this is  harmonious) in fire - Jupiter in Leo about our heart, opening up our passion, really expanding the heart space and looking at things differently , Uranus in Aries looking at our self, the independence and uniqueness and Mars in Sagittarius ready to go and explore and take us on these big powerful journeys. We want the freedom to go with what we want and universe is really ready to blast open the doors, with new directions and new roads.

So Today is the day to gather everything together so we can be ready to move into all this…

We still have this Mercury Retrograde happening in scorpio which is here to give us the depth to understand all these deep things and really cut away from the things that no longer serve us. Scorpio is life and death - and it really is as final with these situations. The decisions will be made and that is it there is no going back later its final - the only way is forwards.

With this Mercury Retrograde, you will be exploring a lot, really going beneath things and really reveal the truth.

It will also pose questions like is it really in your destiny to be with this person? Do you really think that, that energy is right to connect with?

It’s really a time to fly and i know it is not easy. There is a need for us to REALLY know what it is we want, to REALLY know who we are and to make sure we are connecting with that. If you're not doing this that Pluto in Capricorn is gonna bust it all out into the open. Chances like these, this energy does not come around everyday and the decision is now guys & Dolls. It might be hard because whether following for good or not so good thats true to you, there might be a let go & a redirection shift here.

The power of all this is going with what you know you want & the universe will take you where you need to go and you need to trust in that.  

Neptune is in Pisces so it is about trusting and connecting spiritually as spirit will not lead you wrong. They are pulling you towards something and your thoughts and surrounds - PAY ATTENTION!! There are signs here… What is it you are thinking about? what things randomly pop into your head?

The intensity is that there is going to be changes in partnerships, our values and what we truly want. can make you feel like you're being stretched everywhere today. but trust that you're being put in the right place. Allow this excitement to take us on this journey. It’s like we are all being given tickets - but who is on board!?? Who is resisting and who is open? Being honest is so KEY!!

Destiny is really hitting us today and what it is all about! Everything is here ready to go. . .

My advice is to be very very honest!

Dreaming of an Ex

Dreaming of an Ex

Now People sometimes find comfort when dreaming of a ex boyfriend or girlfirend. But before i get into that, there has been many traditions amongst spiritual people that are an exception to rule of this kind of dream. If you dreamt of a partner before you ever met them, then for sure you are bound, entwined together for the rest of your life… This is known as the famous ‘’twin flame or soul mate connection’’. Usually these matches will find it difficult in the beginning but it really is something so unique that nothing else will match to it.  So if you dream constantly of someone it’s showing you and reminding you of that said someone, it’s the universes way of drawing you back together and this serves more of a premonition than a psychological analysis that is what dream interpretations are.

So for the rest of you folks here is what it means to dream of an ex… This is just a brief meaning, there are lots of factors to be taken into it, if you would like to know more or have specifics then feel free to comment below.

“To dream that your ex is missing you suggests that you "miss" some aspect of that past relationship. A situation in your current life may be reminding you of your relationship with your ex. Alternatively, the dream may mean that you have moved on with your life. The notion that your ex is missing you may be a pun on that he has "missed" his opportunity or "missed" his chance with you. If you dream that you walk off or walk away with your ex, then it indicates that your current love interests are not measuring up to your ex. To see your mate's ex in your dream suggests that you are comparing yourself to the ex. The dream is telling you not to make the same relationship mistakes that ended that relationship…” Dreammoods <3

Relationships #Friends & the Influence

Relationships #Friends & the Influence

So friends are really important to us all… Agreed! They are the closest thing to most of us other than our Families (that we can never get rid of - at times). Our friends are the people that just get us with rarely any judgement They are our biggest support system.

So it makes sense that when you introduce someone you're dating to these special people that you very soon become a label instead of an individual… As i found ‘’the latest squeeze’’ or normally ‘’the NEW girlfriend/boyfriend’’ - Instead of just you… You become an object of judgement! So It goes without saying your friends or your partners friends are or can be your biggest PR Campaign - that can promote or destroy you.

In truth what they say matters and with the level and amount of time they spend with your partner the bigger the influence that they (friends) have over them on you. Yes integrating your partner to your friends and family are important too the future of the relationship, it is what makes them see that you can be in their life for longer. But there are right ways of doing this.

My Mistake

So I had casually met a few of my partner at the times friends, and the ones i did meet were very nice… Now i have a thing about large crowds, that i never used to have but from the stories i had been told it kinda freaked me out a little and i found it extremely overwhelming to be in a room full of all of his friends - HE HAD LOADS!!. So i put it off…

This was potentially harmful to my relationship at the time, as the longer i left it the worse the picture was of me that i had painted for them. Now to my surprise some of his friends knew about me others didn’t, this took the edge off a little but also posed questions in my mind. The questions where 100% the situation i had created for myself, because obviously he was not viewing the relationship as i was at the time, but that is my own fault because i was not integrating into his world.

In other areas of our relationship i shined and this area, the most important of all others i sucked at!! I supported him in doing something that he had always wanted to do, i did my part and raised money for his cause. And It really was a proud moment that he had put everything together as amazingly as he did! It was a proud Girlfriend Moment! He had put on a benefit to help raise money and awareness for a charity and then went on to climb a mountain in africa and had this life changing experience, it was great to have been apart of the making of that.

Anyways, It was the first time i had been in a huge room where i suddenly came aware that i knew nobody. His friends were not as welcoming as i had hoped, but 100% again this was my fault for being so distant in the beginning. Upon talking to some & i think this is probably the moment that kind of knocked me a little, was when one of his good friends (admittedly she was rather drunk) said ‘’ohh you the latest squeeze” I was thinking well i’m not the latest i’ve been with him for almost a year… Then it dawned on me, It took me a year before even coming close to being in his world… So yes i should expect that… and what was to follow.. ‘’He certainly kept you quiet.. did he tell you that me & him..”

Wow i was shocked and at that moment all i wanted to do was go home yet i stayed and supported him. The responses i had got were fair i had not made the effort in the beginning so i should not of expected any less.

The moral and the lesson i have learnt from all this & it might be so simple to the rest of you but to me it had never occurred, because i had not been in a position where i actually cared and it was a new experience for me. By that i mean, i had obviously dated others but i was not that into them to worry about that side of things.

So yes the lesson, It’s important if someone you're dating wants you to meet the people he cares most about. Infact the topic of wanting to meet the new love interest had probably come from their closed friends in first place, from all the good things that the person you're dating has been talking about. It should be a fun honored thing… (Even if i found it daunting).

Instead of putting it off, you should always take them up on that offer. If you do not take them up on that offer, your painting a bad light for yourself in the eyes of those that mean the most to your partner. The longer you leave it the worse it becomes, because we are seen as this girl/guy who is stealing all our mates time and yet she/he won't make time for us? They won't stand for it and that’s when they become the PR Campayn that destroys you, leaves you with less time with your partner until eventually it crumbles.

So yes meeting them as soon as you can allows you to get to see him in another light, how he is outside of you and who you are together. You get to see what kind of people he cares for and it’s then your choice to make rapport with them and make them important to you too. It also gets you to be seen as an individual instead of ‘’blah blah’s Girl/boyfriend”.

Another thing that is important is to allow your partner to still have that time alone with their mates but there has to be a balance in this too. They should always be encouraged to do the things that make them the happiest, after all that is what we want. Never try to control someone or change them because they will not be the person you fell in love with. Communicate your feelings and practise the art of compromise, if there is not a balance and the other is not willing to invest into you as you are into them, it’s not the relationship for you.

I hope this is some what enlightening. I have certainly learnt my lesson & one thing i will add here too is that you must look at the past as your greatest teacher to the present, do not keep making the same mistakes or you will find yourself in the same situations and there will be no time for growth.

I’d love to hear your feedback

Kerry