A Notion on Love... "But we were supposed to be together?"

A notion of Love found and love lost

- True love never leaves!

It’s true what they say, that nobody can take away the past, what you had with someone, the memories, the moments, they are yours and forever always will be for as long as you remember them.

I guess we all meet that one person in our life that takes a piece of you when it’s all said and over, they imprint you, mark you and perhaps even change you… But it is important to not lose the time that we have for the time that we had.

For a long time, I spent holding on to what was, scared of what could be if I was to open that part of myself to another - Love is about trust and vulnerability, and we often find ourselves questioning, finding yourself comparing everyone to that one.

It’s not fair to put that level of expectation on to anyone,  to always be doubting, surely to be who they are and have that be enough should be enough. Who knows you may be surprised with what that rare person could bring you because everyone we know right now is serving some form of a purpose - To teach us something, to show us what we want, don’t want, to see or discover something ect.

Yes, it’s true that things end, things are taken from you and things change but it is important that we allow things to be as they are instead of forcing them into what we want them to be.

You will always have those moments, they are yours ingrained deeply and with every memory you can be reminded of how you and they once burned bright… But note that when that fire goes out don’t wait forever to allow someone new to make you feel even a fraction of how they did or do.

Holding onto something or someone that is no longer here and present with you is only you, standing in the way of your own happiness, the happiness that you deserve... What if the person that you're supposed to be with has just not found their way to you yet? What if that something had to end to shape a series of events to bring you together. If something ended or someone walked away from you, they are not a part of your future, but just a reflection or a fragment of a memory that will last but only a moment in comparison because what you will create, which will last a lifetime.

Because I guarantee that with every step forward the best will always be the very best to come. Be open to surprise, to truth and to the love that never leaves you but grows alongside you.

The ones that have faith in all that you do, the ones that are not only there for the good times, but the ones that can make everything okay when things get tough. The best friends, the boyfriends, the girlfriends, the brothers and the sister, people who see you, cherish you, inspire you and will always be there for you, not the drive byes and the for the moment types.

In a world full of superficiality my wish for you is to find the truest form of love there is, and for you to be fully open to receiving it. Because Love is not rational, it makes no real sense, it’s a chemical reaction, a feeling, a knowing, and that right there is something that not many people ever get to experience - embrace and follow that feeling, that feeling that lights you up and I’m not just talking about romantic love, but friendships and the tribe you vibe with.

So many of us play it safe, stay inside the lines, conceal our truest thoughts and feelings - not many of us can be honest with others let alone ourselves… & Some hide, some are so scared of what could be that they never get up and do it or see how or what it could be.

Be honest today, and allow your over thinking mind to take the day off, step into your heart space and truly see for the first time.

Fall Relationships - Make up or Break up?

With Fall upon us and relationships entering the Make up or Break-up phase I thought it would be a good time to voice some words...

So What’s the deal with relationships this day in age…

Those that know of me know the nature of my work and I guess I find it super interesting to see the recurring themes that come through when I do my readings.

So, It’s that time of year again the summer is coming to a close and for some strange reason we all feel like we have to be in some form of a “real- action - ship”...

Everyone wants a relationship, well, okay, not everyone… But the majority especially in the western world do, but not many people know how to make a real relationship work. Why is that?

I believe that we are so “self” focused that we forget a relationship includes another person… That other person is not there for your own means and when it suits you and this goes for both Men & Women and be that if you're in a same-sex partnership or otherwise.

So yes we all want something that’s “real” something that is exciting and something that is going somewhere “real-action-ship”... but you have to be able to relate to one another, work thing through, be ready not just for the good times but it’s the bad times that define the strength of a partnership.

The Video that I shared with you is a Video by a man that seems to just get things! And everyone knows I love people who see things differently. I’m not a relationship advice coach but I have experienced enough to know what works and what does not work.

5 Ways to stay connected with your partner

For example the “No Phone Rule”... Everyone is so glued to their phones that they allow the world to pass them by or live it online, instead of experiencing it for themselves. If you want to create something beautiful with another person, switch your device off and actually physically connect (not just for sex).

Another thing that I feel is super important is that you have your own life outside of the relationship, being glued to one another is not the healthiest kind of partnership, and partnerships require growth and if there is not much variety it slows down.

Create boundaries, it’s not about being a hard ass it’s about knowing your needs and respecting the other person’s needs also.

Communication is obviously the most important and something that I personally have been working on my entire life… Don’t be afraid to speak up and air things out. And be sure to understand your significant other's love language - we all speak it differently.

And lastly the relationship is not about yourself it’s about the both of you - remember this! If you think a relationship is about your significant other waiting on you hand and foot, buying you gifts and dropping everything at whim as soon as you call then maybe you should work more so on the relationship you have with yourself before getting into one with someone else.

Relationships in my opinion should be as fair and as just as they can be, it’s hard work, it requires time, patience and the willing to experience growth (growth is not easy). You have to carve out time, you have to consider another person, you have to be open and willing to understand things in the eyes of another, you have to choose that person everyday, it requires transparency and honesty, it’s giving and taking.

“Most” people look at relationships from a superficial perspective, as in “what can this person give me” - Do they look good, how many people want them, do they have a good job, are they needy (don’t want to have to work so hard), money can even come into the equation as well as who do they know.

Some look at relationships as something to “do” when your bored, someone that’s there to make you “happy”, someone to make you feel good when it suits you. Not many people see it as hard work, if it becomes hard it’s time to end it and move on to the next exciting thing… Everything is instant this day in age and everything is outward…

What can you offer someone? And what is it that you really need when looking at an ideal partner? Everyone is seeking the idea of a connection but not many know how to connect past the physical act of sex.

Personally speaking, you only attract someone truly fitting for you when you are happy in yourself, in the life your living and when your not actually looking for anything. You don’t look for love… It finds you!

Then comes the real work… To not allow the life you have to slip but to increase it further - not in an instant but slowly.

For those who have met their “twin Flames” (a lot of My clients have experienced this) - Remember there purpose is to help you grow at a fast rate! They really are not all they are cracked up to be and energetically speaking we are still in the Jezzabel phase it’s certainly not the time for reconnection. Focus on you for now and watch and see what happens from September 2016  through 2017 - The right kind of love will find you.

Much love x x x

Venus in Capricorn/Capricorn in Love/7th house Cusp Capricorn

Venus in Capricorn

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Venus in Capricorn or a Capricorn  in Love

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Venus is the Planet of Love, beauty and relationships in a Man’s chart it can point to what they look for in a lover/wife. So when your looking at Love in the sign of Capricorn you should know that Capricorn Love's Stability above all things they need to know where they stand this sign knows and does what it takes to make it work.

❝This Love is a powerful, Strong love, It’s the power couple placement, the unbreakable partnership. The kind of love that goes the distance. No games, stable,reliable, and something that grows abundantly with time❞ -Ask a Little Witch

Love for a Venus in Capricorn is a no bulshit, strong and powerful Venus placement. They Value stability and they work damn hard when it comes to Love, in fact they would have had a lot of hard lessons when it comes to the romance sector which makes them cautious they do not jump into a relationship. These partners are loyal a pillar of strength and if they get into a partnership with someone it goes the distance, they do not quit but they do expect there significant other to hold their own in the relationship.

Venus in Capricorn is an Earth Sign! So depending upon Moon placement these people would rather show their love in a practical way by doing things for you. You know if your with one because this relationship cannot be broken down by anyone it’s impenetrable… Capricorn ruled by Saturn almost points to the fact that this partnership placement will become more abundant with time also but it will require you to put the effort in.

If you have Capricorn ruling your seventh you can kind of relate to this as it is similar to the Capricorn venus placement. These people want a someone who will help them build a solid foundation, they value home life as well as career and so they work hard at work to create the desirable home life.

Now Saturn ruling signs often undergo a lot of lessons and being as we are talking Venus aka Love, relationships and partnerships it’s safe to say you have known a lot of this! Now It’s not all doom and gloom, you really do work your asses off but if your not learning your “lessons” and repeating all the same mistakes then your only be fooling yourself… After 28-30 your relationships will be so much better, the Saturn restriction will lessen and grow in the way that you want them too.

I think part of the lesson with this is that Capricorn rules over career, and until your in a position where you feel stable your not really open to being all in a relationship by what we now days class a loving relationship as… Capricorn is ambitious, driven and so they really need these qualities in a partnership too… although early on in life you may be more driven to go for people that your ego self wants and so in roll the lessons.

Now Venus in Capricorn does mean your attracted to people who are powerful, successful, stable, yet ambitious, financially secure and Capricorn rules the 10th so this can even point to the fact you want people to look at your relationship and almost desire it - a bit like the Venus in Leo with all eyes on us vibe going on… this really is the placement of the power couple the couple to can do, reach and achieve anything but knows it takes time! I must admit i kinda love this placement!

The good thing with this placement is that your always striving for more pushing to be better versions of yourself and inspiring your partners to be better also, not like a Sagittarius who is full steam ahead but in a more gradual way. Capricorn Lovers make great lovers always ready to please and do for their partners but they do want it back to.

Celebrities with this Placement

Brad pitt, Miley, Scarlett Johansson, Jim Carrey, James Dean, Alicia Keys, Michael Jordan, Bradley Cooper, Frank sinatra, Jennifer Love Hewitt, Ben Stiller, Owen Wilson, Kate Bosworth, Britney Spears

Thanks so much for taking the time to read my two cents on Venus in Capricorn and if you are a Venus in Capricorn then I love you!

Venus in Aquarius or an Aquarius in Love

Venus in Aquarius

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Venus in Aquarius or a Aquarius  in Love

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Venus is the Planet of Love, beauty and relationships in a Man’s chart it can point to what they look for in a lover/wife. So when your looking at Love in the sign of Aquarius you should know that Aquarius is an Air sign which Loves everything that is “out of the box” the way in which they Love is not bound by traditions they make their own rules.

❝This is the home for one of a kind love and love that is open minded and will love you for all you weird quirks and find them truly beautiful.❞ -Ask a Little Witch

Let just make this really easy, If you know an Aquarius especially one with a lot of Aquarius energy aka more than a few planets in the sign of Aquarius then you already know that they are so not considered normal they are original, whether in appearence, views or just what they are into. Being ruled by Uranus the planet of innovation and change and a whole lot of crazy goings on these people think differently to everyone else. As well as need to change things up to keep them interesting.

Venus in Aquarius cannot fit into any one box, they do not fit into what’s classed as “normal”. They Love different people, usual people, people with a brain and it is a very intellectual investigative placement “I want to give anything a go” type of a sign and so it is when it comes to Love.

Now not saying all Aquarius’s or Venus in Aquarius have dabbled with same sex partnerships, they just feel if they haven’t given it ago how do they know? These people do no date by what society deems as “right” they will date people from all walks of life, they are the explorer and so a Venus placement means they like to try different things to gain different experiences. They are likely to date people from different races, backgrounds, ethnic groups, religions, ages be that a lot younger or a lot older than them, they have no rules there aim in Love to explore.

Something else to add is that I’ve seen from predominant Aquarius people is they are attracted to people that makes you think “why are they together?” They Love weird, strange, quirky, goofy, geeky, unusual people and not what is current right now if you live in Essex for example, and you watch all “the only way is Essex” pretty much all the guys and girls that live in Essex fit into that “Essex” Stereotype... but an Aquarius would not be into that… they want something real, open, honest and different.

Love for them is not bound, they truly are free spirits. Also they are kinda kinky in the bedroom although does depend on Mars placements but they like usual everything if you catch my drift.

One of the things I Love about Aquarius/Venus in Aquarius is the non judgmental-ness of them.. Those that know me know that I have a huge Crush on Aquarius energy! They do not box people in, they are not confined by religion, sexual orientation, race, social class, tall, small, slim, the quirky the better they Love what they Love and they do not understand other people who date for the things mentioned above.

Now yes there is a downside for those trying to get with a Venus in Aquarius because they want to try everything, they Love everything equally and as such settling down is difficult because they want it all. You have to be pretty amazing to capture the heart of one because they are so flighty and flakey. (unless obviously they have other aspects grounding them down making them want commitment)

These people Love to socialise and be in many relationships not necessarily romantically but because they are so well connected and everyone's friend this can make it difficult for the lover of a Venus in Aquarius because they would not be number one… Everyone is equal (usually). These people need space to go off on their own as well so clingy relationships don't work well for these people either, anything you consider a normal relationships is not really how an Aquarius sees relationships. They can also be emotionally detached too, they want to understand things from an intellectual standpoint - Air signs are always in the mind.

Lastly Aquarius people and Venus in Aquarius will be very hard for you to know if they like you, because they are the same with everyone and they need friendship before anything romantic. So it’s confusing because they are not ones to get in there feelings, your not likely to know where you stand as they keep everyone on the same level.

But if your looking for something unique, an adventure, something extraordinary, exciting, your down for everything and your not someone who needs someone being around constantly then this Venus in Aquarius is for you.

Celebrities with this Placement

Taylor Swift, Paris Hilton, Oprah, Jessica Bell, Mel Gibson, Nicolas Cage, Adam Levine, Ellen Degeneres, Quentin tarantino, Liam Hemsworth, Eva Mendes,