Dreaming of an Ex

Dreaming of an Ex

Now People sometimes find comfort when dreaming of a ex boyfriend or girlfirend. But before i get into that, there has been many traditions amongst spiritual people that are an exception to rule of this kind of dream. If you dreamt of a partner before you ever met them, then for sure you are bound, entwined together for the rest of your life… This is known as the famous ‘’twin flame or soul mate connection’’. Usually these matches will find it difficult in the beginning but it really is something so unique that nothing else will match to it.  So if you dream constantly of someone it’s showing you and reminding you of that said someone, it’s the universes way of drawing you back together and this serves more of a premonition than a psychological analysis that is what dream interpretations are.

So for the rest of you folks here is what it means to dream of an ex… This is just a brief meaning, there are lots of factors to be taken into it, if you would like to know more or have specifics then feel free to comment below.

“To dream that your ex is missing you suggests that you "miss" some aspect of that past relationship. A situation in your current life may be reminding you of your relationship with your ex. Alternatively, the dream may mean that you have moved on with your life. The notion that your ex is missing you may be a pun on that he has "missed" his opportunity or "missed" his chance with you. If you dream that you walk off or walk away with your ex, then it indicates that your current love interests are not measuring up to your ex. To see your mate's ex in your dream suggests that you are comparing yourself to the ex. The dream is telling you not to make the same relationship mistakes that ended that relationship…” Dreammoods <3

The Turtle/Tortoise

The Turtle/Tortoise

It’s important to remember with any sign or symbol, that some things will mean something different to some people. So sometimes, yes it may sound a little funny, but some people remind us of certain animals and so when you keep seeing that animal it could be in relation to that person.

The Turtle

The turtle has a hard shell, symbolically speaking someone with a tough exterior & a guarded heart with an incredible strength like no other. They symbolise someone who is deeply intuitive, to find peace they just have to shut of and look within for answers.

They are explorers, journeying,  everything they need is around them, one with nature and have a good heart. These people are calculated, slow and steady unless in the water- again saying when they delve into their emotions things become clear and they know where they are heading. They are a master of knowledge… You can not rush a Turtle they require time and patience - a free spirit! Resilient - Persistent - determination - Endurance

If you keep seeing turtles this is an indicator that you need to strong at this moment in your life, your journey is proving to be hard, if in doubt go with in for answers. Turtles symbolise Knowledge, strength, intuition, driven, resilience, determination, endurance to follow through… Pace your self there is no rush think of that end goal - YOU WILL GET THERE!!

Love Languages

Love Languages

My Personal Favorite Post of The Week

So I wanted to share with you a little something that can really transform your relationships! IT’s Called the Five Love Languages - A book by a man Named Gary Chapman. So It’s importnant to know that each person gives and expects love in different ways, i mean we are all individual and we all have different veiws as to what love even is.

Gary Chapman Claims there are Five Love Languages, The first being Physical Touch, The second, Words of Affirmation, the third, Acts of Service, fourth, receiving Gifts and the fifth Quality Time.

So i highly recomment you go online and take the test to know how you, your self expect love to be given… then maybe convince your partner to give it a whirl. It changes everything when you can understand each other. Because someone might concider doing the dishes as an act of love while the other would prefer you undivided attention instead.

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http://www.5lovelanguages.com/

Astrology Friday & the Weekend 19, 20th & 21st

Astrology Friday & the Weekend

A pretty chilled weekend in comparison to what is coming in the next few months -being eclipses! This is about us really getting prepared for some big things, it’s when things really hit the fan, or destiny opens up and changes your life forever always with eclipses. I know it sounds extreme right i guess we can look back at this in a month and see what happens =)

This weekend is a time for us to get ready as the planet Pluto comes direct on Monday 22nd which is huge… it’s about exposing and change. Big changes in our lives, changing the structure of our lives. This weekend there will be a lot of positive energy, good emotions and excitement brewing, This weekend will light a lot of us if not all of us up at some point - lots of opportunities, new things happening, new perceptions taking place, new doors opening and new beliefs we are stepping into.

You will still be made aware of the restrictions to life still, making sure your looking at the decisions you make very carefully, to ensure you do not jump into things without knowing if it is based off of our truth, to make decisions that will advance your life in moving forward correctly.

It is also about finding ways to advance to our highest goals, that we change, adapt or re invent ways of stepping into our destinies that in turn make us or get us on the way to who we really are.

There will be a great healing this weekend also. A lot of great things are coming together this weekend as well, and maybe out of no where - but in a realistic sense that you don’t go overboard, get ahead of your self.

Late saturday into sunday there will be some strange things happening with sun and moon, It’s the universe aligning things very uniquely this weekend to empower your happiness, to find your heart and make any last adjustments because these next couple weeks begin a powerful eclipse season into a powerful october that will change peoples lives.

This month is really about capturing that vision, and there is one for us all - because we need to have this goal/vision with us for what’s to come in the next month or two. Some major tests for us all, we will be learning to be bold, finding balance, which is not easy to be both of these things at the same time. It will be a time of stretching ourselfs, and trying to now get lost along the way…. That’s with Neptune in Pisces which will be teaching us to follow our gut, the need to know what is going to happen before it does.  

This weekend will be lovely - know that these are just the doors opening of what’s coming in the months to come

Crystal Water - Crystal Elixir?

Crystal Water - Crystal Elixir?

So, I you might of seen a while back that i posted a scientific experiment about labels, words, intentions and how they affect planets, water and other things…

Well to cut a long story short, when we apply labels, with certain words written upon them, or even when we speak certain words that they in turn carry an energy with it and effect the ‘’said thing’’.

So that happens both ways, if we say particularly good things, or we make food with love and gratitude it tastes different to that of something that was made by someone who was thinking or saying horrid things! I’ll try find a few experiments and link them below.

What i’m trying to say is we are all energy! Everything is energy and we all vibrate on different levels, same as certain words have different energy within them - This being said you can change your mood simply by changing your language… Now i’m not talking about swearing because in some cases we see and use certain words with a positive intention so this would not count.

So, I have been testing out the difference with drinking water. Yes i might be a tad loopy… But i kid you not - TRY IT!! you will be amazed. Now all i am doing is placing a Clear quartz crystal  in the water - I personally bottle the water up and keep it in the fridge and place a quartz at the bottom.

Now the taste is so much different in my eyes… Might just be my energy with the crystal but i know people who have done this and it has made a difference, it’s just so energizing.

Note: You cannot put all crystals in there as some can be harmful - Id recommend staying with the quartz family - Clear, rose, amethyst, green aventurine… Now each crystal has different properties so depending on your own personal preferences you might like to experiment with different ones, or mix and match… I’m only using Clear quartz for now as it  purifies, amplifies all other crystal elixirs. It can be be used for healing on all levels and on any of our bodies. Strengthens, heals and amplifies energy. It really does give a boost it is not like drinking normal water this stuff is magic…

Give it a whirl and let me know what you think!! =) Again research the crystal before adding it to your water

Link to Myth-busters plants have consciousness

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fStmk7e9lJo

The Rice Experiment

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7mSbJBba6ro

Astrology News - Thursday 17th September

Astrology Thursday

All lot more comfortable today than yesterdays energy. Things are flowing a lot more today, with stability, will and action with a little pick me up later on.

Lots of fire starting to grow, which in turn will light up a lot in our lives. Exciting new things & opportunities too - to the extent we could feel a little stretched - So advice is to stay within certain limits don’t get to crazy!!

The universe has opened doors so powerfully, that your able to do, explore new areas, things that you have never done before and go into new directions that you have not before. Breaking free & moving forward leaving the troubles in the past.

It’s about your passions and what you want today - there is no need to take every opportunity, just stay within your truth. There is the need to get deep here!

We have been learning to get our life together these past few weeks, re-adjusting things, getting organised and we are starting to get there. AGAIN Make  sure you are following your truth.

A surprise tonight when all the fiery energy kicks in, the love starts to come around, something really exciting is coming our way.

HAppy Thursday to all

The Sufi Quote

The Sufi Quote

If your heart is like an ocean & you body is just it's beach... why do you wait for the emotion to surface, instead search and dive deep within for you will find the answers that you seek.

We rationalize everything, constantly battling with our thoughts... but it is within our emotions that lye the truth... The heart will never lead you wrong it follows what makes us happy - where is the harm in that?

Wednesday Astrology NEWs!!!

Astrology Wednesday

Today there is a lot going  could be the sort of energy that we want to nothing but be in comfort, but good luck with that! That is just not going to happen today, busy, busy, craziness so much happening so many demands upon us. A Intense & Restless energy with lots of test’s - Can you handle the emotions with the intensity? Things are also very changeable and we want to just find a place amongst the craziness to feel at ease and be in comfort.

Let go, there is a need to face our wounds with relationships & we can heal from them today No rest for us today, lots of questions brewing to the surface… Stay with the plans that you have made and don’t allow the little things to get to you. Today we should be some what more clear about what it is that we want, where we are being pulled towards, those doors are opening, it’s the day of realization - AN intense day for all.

Stay true to yourself

Symbolism of Flies

Symbolism of Flies

Fly indicates that within the next two weeks be prepared for some sudden/quick changes. Things are going to multiply rapidly, prosperity, ventures, projects and the fly teaches us how to act quickly to achieve these results. Keen eyesight & expanding awareness! on another note the lesson lies in the value of carrying our, thoughts, feelings, and emotions in order to act quickly in sometimes unfavourable circumstances.

The Fly teach the ability to greatly multiply prosperity, endeavors and ventures at enormous rates. He shows how to be quick to act and respond to achieve results. Fly aids in demonstrating the power of keen eyesight along with expanding awareness in many directions. Although flies are known for carrying diseases in unfavorable surroundings, the lesson of fly is in the value of carrying your emotions, thoughts and feelings in order to act quickly in sometimes unfavorable or uncomfortable conditions. It takes about two weeks from hatching for new eggs to be laid, likewise, two weeks is significant in one's personal development. Are you ready for quick and abrupt changes? Are you ready to move quickly? Fly will show how to make quick changes for rapid growth.

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Astrology for Tuesday

Astrology Tuesday

Today in astrology the energy is shifting as moon goes into cancer. So Moon loves to be in cancer it’s where it feels at home, so should bring out some nice emotions and starting to feel more grounded about things.

Mercury & north node will be exact at 630-7pm, which brings about destiny with a message, bringing out your true passion, having a true understanding about your path and where you're going. Really powerful truths with lots of fiery energy. But it is also about narrowing things down if your not paying attention to your deep emotional core, then there is a need to start to invest in the right energy.

There is an intense couple of months to come… It will be about knowing  your path & getting secure in all aspects. There will be lots of clean slates.. It is our time right now to grasp the day, knowing where you are going.

Big contracts could be coming, something strongly linked with your destiny, passion or obsession & communication is KEY!

The New story of your life is just beginning bringing powerful new things - So the energy will not be good for all as many of us are resisting. It will test if you're emotionally comfortable in the life you're living… or will be asking questions like can you be comfortable in the way you are living!!

Big things to come - Today is a balanced day if you're one of the ones staying true to yourself.

Breathing - The Cure for all

Breathing - The Cure for all

Breathing is something i learnt when i began to meditate... & it was mastered when i started Yoga! - I realize this sounds totally WEIRD - But it's true...

I used to suffer from intense anxiety and breathing really can change your state of being - It teaches us to be in the now, & to know right now you have the power to change how you feel, the power to change your future... So JUST BREATHE - slowly - deeply - Watch the change it has upon you  <3 Nothing is as scary or as bad as it seems in the moment

ASTROLOGY NEWS!!

Astrology Monday

Today in astrology we are starting to see a very rare occurrence be triggered - We have cleared a lot of karmic debt/issues & are being given a message or clarity from the universe. We have fixed, repaired or are now ready to step into this new energy that is coming.  New doors are opening, have opened already & there is a lot of energy as everything is shifting.

Today you will feel excited for the day although you might be a little all over place and scattered. Today going into tomorrow - Last quarter moon we have finally gotten over whatever it is that you have been trying to fix and stepping into new waters.A big light is about to turn on and we need to be absolutely clear, serious, about what it is we want/are manifesting… Are you Aligning with what you truly want deep down.

WHAT CARD DID YOU PICK? Saturdays =)

WHAT CARD DID YOU PICK? 

If you went with the LEFT then you got FORGIVENESS & if you went with RIGHT then you got REJECTION

FORGIVENESS - Is a Third eye Chakra Card, this is saying that you need to trust your feelings, listen to the heart & pay attention to the signs. Follow what your intuition is telling you, it's time to forgive because if you hold on to this for too long you are only wasting time... Trust in yourself to know what is right, forgiveness will set you free to see clearly. It's a time for healing for you. Its about focusing upon the intention of what you want rather than the pain that is preventing you

REJECTION - This is a Crown Chakra Card and it's about knowing what you need to know, you cannot quite explain it, your being pulled, keep thinking about something, something keeps popping into your mind... Signs and everything is pointing in that direction - but you either ignore it or you follow it because it will bring much happiness... But can you over come the fear of rejection? Are you seeking outsiders approval? You should know you are protected during this time and the only thing you need is courage... to follow your heart.

So here we have again a similar energy or theme... Both indicating an inner trust & following the heart, the first is talking about getting out of your own way in term of past hurt, forgive and move forward because when we act in defensiveness out of hurt we can sometimes regret - this one is about trusting in your self to do the right thing, follow your gut & intuition... The other is saying you know what you should do, but your so scared of being rejected or denied that your stopping your self from being truly happy. You know what to do so have courage to do just that, again stepping out of your own way, sometime things don't go as to plan, but are you willing to miss an opportunity this great?

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Choose a Card Saturday

Choose a Card!!

Hey Guy's... So every Monday, Friday & Saturday i'll be posting up these beauties @ 11 am and all you have to do is pick Left or right - comment below and then i will reveal the cards with meanings at 8pm! I hope you like this version, please like and share with friends as always...

I'm still doing free one card readings on my Facebook Page 'askalittlewitch' every Weds for something more personal and of course you can still book a full online reading with me, just drop me a message or book online at my website - details can be found in the About me section.

Fridays Cards! Left or Right Your Choice

So what card did you pick tonight?? LEFT - Destiny & RIGHT - Miracle 

It's funny to see that these two cards have come up again - From what i know astrologically there is this pull in the universe, and it's pulling us towards something that we are supposed to be doing, or someone we are supposed to meet... There has been a lot of upset the past few weeks but i feel it was important to get us clear about all we want in our life, be honest with our self & deal with it. There is this air of passion around today, listening to our hearts and going after what we want.You will know what to do - pay attention to your emotions.

Destiny - I feel like the energy from this card is powerful, like i always say we are being guided through our life, spirit is always with us... This is a perfect example of this - Something has brought about some synchronicity and something that was supposed to happen will indeed happen this weekend. It's also a card that reminds us that the answers we seek are within, and that we should not question our gut instinct... You have a vision of how you want your life to be, and sometimes we become inflexible in how we want it to happen.. IT's asking you to take a risk, is this how you want your life to be, if i's not then take a risk, you may have to sacrifice something in order to get what it is you really want. Sometimes it's important to remember that in love you are better together than alone, you can accomplish so much more. KEYWORDS: True love, taking a stand, positive omen, radical thinking, deep satisfaction and the ability to change.

Miracle - So yes something amazing is going to take place with this card... It's a card of joy and maybe something unexpected taking place - a little surprise. But are you ready to allow it in? Do you let someone in or do you pretend not to see them? You cannot shut out pain without shutting our pleasure... Then come as a pair, just as you cannot really know joy without feeling sadness. This card asks you to think of this... Know and trust that you know what feels authentic and go with it. You will of come from a place of being scattered and now find your self become whole and undivided. You will be required to be honest and to stand by your morals - Something amazing is going to happen, big or small, material or internal there will be a positive shift.

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Choose a Card!! Friday's

Choose a Card!!

Hey Guy's... So every Monday, Friday & Saturday i'll be posting up these beauties @ 11 am and all you have to do is pick Left or right - comment below and then i will reveal the cards with meanings at 8pm! I hope you like this version, please like and share with friends as always...

I'm still doing free one card readings on my Facebook Page 'askalittlewitch' every Weds for something more personal and of course you can still book a full online reading with me, just drop me a message or book online at my website - details can be found in the About me section.

To that perfect partner or a Happier YOU…

To that perfect partner or a Happier YOU…

Stop being so external, looks attract they do not keep - Today's society is full of women not happy with how they look: not pretty enough, not sexy enough, not slim enough, not curvy… You are who you are & simply by being who you are you attract the ‘’potentials’’. 

This week i want you all to practice self love, stand in front of a mirror and tell your self of all the things you love about your self… Now i know that might sound awkward, but we need to stop allowing others to judge and tell us our worth - we should already know that we are AMAZING!

They are not you… Stop looking to others to tell you what you are. You are you & you are more than ENOUGH… You're amazing!

Relationships #Friends & the Influence

Relationships #Friends & the Influence

So friends are really important to us all… Agreed! They are the closest thing to most of us other than our Families (that we can never get rid of - at times). Our friends are the people that just get us with rarely any judgement They are our biggest support system.

So it makes sense that when you introduce someone you're dating to these special people that you very soon become a label instead of an individual… As i found ‘’the latest squeeze’’ or normally ‘’the NEW girlfriend/boyfriend’’ - Instead of just you… You become an object of judgement! So It goes without saying your friends or your partners friends are or can be your biggest PR Campaign - that can promote or destroy you.

In truth what they say matters and with the level and amount of time they spend with your partner the bigger the influence that they (friends) have over them on you. Yes integrating your partner to your friends and family are important too the future of the relationship, it is what makes them see that you can be in their life for longer. But there are right ways of doing this.

My Mistake

So I had casually met a few of my partner at the times friends, and the ones i did meet were very nice… Now i have a thing about large crowds, that i never used to have but from the stories i had been told it kinda freaked me out a little and i found it extremely overwhelming to be in a room full of all of his friends - HE HAD LOADS!!. So i put it off…

This was potentially harmful to my relationship at the time, as the longer i left it the worse the picture was of me that i had painted for them. Now to my surprise some of his friends knew about me others didn’t, this took the edge off a little but also posed questions in my mind. The questions where 100% the situation i had created for myself, because obviously he was not viewing the relationship as i was at the time, but that is my own fault because i was not integrating into his world.

In other areas of our relationship i shined and this area, the most important of all others i sucked at!! I supported him in doing something that he had always wanted to do, i did my part and raised money for his cause. And It really was a proud moment that he had put everything together as amazingly as he did! It was a proud Girlfriend Moment! He had put on a benefit to help raise money and awareness for a charity and then went on to climb a mountain in africa and had this life changing experience, it was great to have been apart of the making of that.

Anyways, It was the first time i had been in a huge room where i suddenly came aware that i knew nobody. His friends were not as welcoming as i had hoped, but 100% again this was my fault for being so distant in the beginning. Upon talking to some & i think this is probably the moment that kind of knocked me a little, was when one of his good friends (admittedly she was rather drunk) said ‘’ohh you the latest squeeze” I was thinking well i’m not the latest i’ve been with him for almost a year… Then it dawned on me, It took me a year before even coming close to being in his world… So yes i should expect that… and what was to follow.. ‘’He certainly kept you quiet.. did he tell you that me & him..”

Wow i was shocked and at that moment all i wanted to do was go home yet i stayed and supported him. The responses i had got were fair i had not made the effort in the beginning so i should not of expected any less.

The moral and the lesson i have learnt from all this & it might be so simple to the rest of you but to me it had never occurred, because i had not been in a position where i actually cared and it was a new experience for me. By that i mean, i had obviously dated others but i was not that into them to worry about that side of things.

So yes the lesson, It’s important if someone you're dating wants you to meet the people he cares most about. Infact the topic of wanting to meet the new love interest had probably come from their closed friends in first place, from all the good things that the person you're dating has been talking about. It should be a fun honored thing… (Even if i found it daunting).

Instead of putting it off, you should always take them up on that offer. If you do not take them up on that offer, your painting a bad light for yourself in the eyes of those that mean the most to your partner. The longer you leave it the worse it becomes, because we are seen as this girl/guy who is stealing all our mates time and yet she/he won't make time for us? They won't stand for it and that’s when they become the PR Campayn that destroys you, leaves you with less time with your partner until eventually it crumbles.

So yes meeting them as soon as you can allows you to get to see him in another light, how he is outside of you and who you are together. You get to see what kind of people he cares for and it’s then your choice to make rapport with them and make them important to you too. It also gets you to be seen as an individual instead of ‘’blah blah’s Girl/boyfriend”.

Another thing that is important is to allow your partner to still have that time alone with their mates but there has to be a balance in this too. They should always be encouraged to do the things that make them the happiest, after all that is what we want. Never try to control someone or change them because they will not be the person you fell in love with. Communicate your feelings and practise the art of compromise, if there is not a balance and the other is not willing to invest into you as you are into them, it’s not the relationship for you.

I hope this is some what enlightening. I have certainly learnt my lesson & one thing i will add here too is that you must look at the past as your greatest teacher to the present, do not keep making the same mistakes or you will find yourself in the same situations and there will be no time for growth.

I’d love to hear your feedback

Kerry

The Cards Revealed

WHAT CARD DID YOU SELECT EARLIER!?? LEFT OR RIGHT

If you went with LEFT you got Workaholic if you went with RIGHT You got Forgiveness...

WORKAHOLIC - Is a Throat Chakra Card, this is saying you put your self to work instead of speaking up or acknowledging your emotions... Working will certainly distract but your emotions will come to the surface and take you or someone by surprise. What have you got to loose... Tell them how you feel, although your self to acknowledge and deal with whats going on beneath the surface. Do not allow life, opportunities, choices pass you by... Are you waiting to complete other goals before you confront this?? It may help keep you busy but your also preventing something greater. Take some time for you, to really deal with the situation at hand.

FORGIVENESS - Is a Third eye Chakra Card, this is saying that you need to trust your feelings, listen to the heart & pay attention to the signs. Follow what your intuition is telling you, it's time to forgive because if you hold on to this for too long you are only wasting time... Trust in yourself to know what is right, forgiveness will set you free to see clearly. It's a time for healing for you. Its about focusing upon the intention of what you want rather than the pain that is preventing you

A lot of energy today what will the full moon early hours of the morning Tuesday... A time for awakening, some of you will fight it others will have clear sight...

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Super Full Moon in Pisces - Astrology Today!!

Super Full Moon in Pisces - Astrology Today!!

Okay, today i just want to give you a feel of what’s coming late tonight and tomorrow, talk about the energies and what to expect from it. Tomorrow i shall post about what a full moon is, & the Harvest Moon (Full Moon in September).

ASTROLOGY NEWS TODAY!!

So this Full Moon in Pisces is going to bring a very Sensitive & Unique Energy in turn which can bring some life changing moments even if you're unaware of them at the time. So What’s happening Tonight - mainly tomorrow only happens twice every 30 years! With how the Planets are aligning, So it is really going to define whether or not you're going to stay trapped in fear or over come and step into an empowered reality.

We have the opportunity to step over old wounds and fears and into a more empowered you, the true essence of who we really are. We have the ability to really develop without feeling like we are being made to do it. Now the Full Moon will be insanely healing and it will highlight to us our development issues we really are going to falling into these and going deeper… Not to mention that through working through our fears we can find harmony, do not fight this energy just go with the flow of things, you have been brought here for a reason - search for that reason!!

Relationships will come up tonight/tomorrow as will projects, your deeply intuitive, work through the feelings and emotions too find the truth, stop allowing our minds to dictate to us - get on the right track. Deep Spiritual & Karmic situations that you find yourself in it’s happened for a reason to bring you here to gain the clarity you need… however saying that what you do about it will really set the tone of your life.

You should know that right now amongst all the chaos internally your safe, stable… but BOLD MOVES are required as are making plans. You need to GO ALL IN if you want to get all out of it… It’s scary and again brings up fear… But if you're only going in 70% you're not gonna get all you want from it.

This truly is a something to change our life so pay attention to what’s going on step away from everyone else and take time for your self… Have been being influenced, are you ready to overcome your fears & step forward in the way you knew all along you needed too..

This is a rare moment that will set the tone for the rest of your life, heal your self, step away from fear and step towards something you have been pulled towards. You won’t get a chance like this for another 30 years or so…

FULL MOONS ALWAYS BRING LIGHT TO SOMETHING! What are you going to do about it?

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Overcoming the Green eyed Monster known as - Jealousy

Overcoming the Green eyed Monster known as - Jealousy

So, Sorry for getting all deep on you... I wanted to theme the week on self love & knowing our Self Worth. Jealousy is something that we face at some point in our life, some of us decide to distinguished our self as a jealous person...Forget all the facade over it's only coz i love you that i get jealous, it's a good thing it shows how much i care... It shows nothing more than our own insecurities.

Now i know that may sound a little harsh, and those that know me personally know i'm the kindest person, but when it comes to the truth i can be a little out spoken or blunt, i don't mean to offend in fact i aim to shine a light upon something a lot of us get stuck in.

It's crucial to remember that your partner is not with you simply because your attractive, that is just one factor, & that's what i'd like you to remember before you take something small & making it something huge.

We are in ''relationships'' because that person has so much more to them that meets our desirable partner. So when your partner is engaging in small talk with a some what attractive female, do not assume his going to run off with her... She may be beautiful but she is not you. You are important person in your partners life, and she is not you, so do not fret, jump to conclusions or judge.

You see we meet different categories in peoples life, funny, intelligent, kind, caring, good in bed, generous, out going, fun to be with, values, ambition, goals...  So we are always going to find people who are better at us at some things, but you are the magic ingredient at making your partner yours and he yours.

I hope i am making sense... You see when we are jealous we are sending vibes and energy out that states we are not enough, that person is prettier than me, slimmer than me or funnier than me...

Your partner is with you because he choose to be, because you have all the qualities that he desires, because you are the one that he cannot replace. His not with you just for how you look it’s for everything else you bring to the relationship. But when you act jealous all the time it takes away a little of your sparkle…

Now it depends on the man, some men are naturally flirtatious, some men are not loyal but that's for you to figure out and then it’s for you to decide if this is someone you want to invest in. Trust is key if you have that why are you Jealous??

Jealousy is an internal feeling that implies fear and the lack of something within our self… Your amazing and you are special, your unique to your partner… never let anyone change that. Love who you are, enjoy what you got and be the best you!!

You see there are various categories in a person we find desirable it is not all physical. So yes there will be people that are better then you in certain categories… but you should remember you're so much more to him than just looks, you are many things so you see there is no reason be jealous at all, you are what he wants - not the girl who he is casually talking to for that five minutes.

Jealousy is real - battle it now! Stop comparing your self to everyone else... Believe me it's great to be different & no i'm not everyone's cup of tea... But when you wake up and realize your a lot happier.

Choose a Card!!

Choose a Card!!

Hey Guy's... So every Monday, Friday & Saturday i'll be posting up these beauties @ 11 am and all you have to do is pick Left or right - comment below and then i will reveal the cards with meanings at 8pm! I hope you like this version, please like and share with friends as always...

I'm still doing free one card readings on my Facebook Page 'askalittlewitch' every Weds for something more personal and of course you can still book a full online reading with me, just drop me a message or book online at my website - details can be found in the About me section.